The time that I “otherized” somebody else was a few years ago when my younger brother confronted me insisting that it was his turn for the xbox. In the midst of a fun game with my friends, I found this absurd. I got the tv first, so he should have to wait. Looking back from his point of view, I now see that I was the one who was hogging the xbox and not sharing. I was caught up in the moment and didn’t realize that I needed to be more sharing.